Things you should never say to your hubby

1. Do you fake an orgasm when you actually didn't? Or find faults with the your husband's way of handling the kids, or pester him to find a new job? If yes, you may be making irreparable damages to your relationship.
2. Following is a list of nine statements compiled by Judy Ford, psychotherapist and author of 'Every Day Love' that you should never utter to your significant other, reports the Mother Nature Network.
3. First comes: "Yes, I had an orgasm."
4. Another statement that is a strict no-no is "You're just like your father." It's nasty and belittling, says Ford.
5. The third forbidden statement is actually very common: "When are you going to find a new job?"
6. The fourth hurtful statement is: "My mother warned me you'd do this!"
7. The fifth line, which is never a good idea to say, is "Just leave it - I'll do it myself!" Just because he's doing something differently than you would doesn't mean that he's doing it wrong.
8. The sixth statement, which can be heart breaking, is "You always... [fill in the blank]" or "You never... [fill in the blank]"
9. Then seventh statement that can be a serious blow is "Do you really think those pants are flattering?"
10. Saying so, you're insulting his looks without showing any genuine concern for his health, according to Ford.
11. Then eighth harsh statement is "Ugh, we're hanging out with him again?, which is an insult to your man's choice of friends.
12. The last but not the least is "Please watch the kids. But don't do this, take them here or forget that..." Let Dad-be-dad. (ANI)

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13 tips to help keep a girl

 1. Keep your promises!!! If you say you're going call her on Wednesday then call her on Wednesday even if it kills u!
2. Be honest, girls hate being lied.
3. Tell her exactly how you feel don't hold back; she'll love it.
4. If she seems tired kiss her and say shes beautiful.
5. Trust that she will be faithful to you.
6. When you go in for the first kiss go SLOW don't scare her.
7. Anything romantic you want to say to her don't say it over the phone or email say it to her in person it will mean so much more to her.
8. When you want to tell her I love you, say it to her while looking into her eyes.
9. Hug her from behind with your arms around her waist.
10. Tip her chin up with your finger to kiss her.
11. Be romantic for no reason.
12. Understand that shes not always going to agree with you.
13. Don't cling to her, she wants independence.

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Simple tip for girls from a guy

We may not like to show it but :
We like to know that we are wanted and needed as well,
We like little suprises just as much as you infact were not alot different
We like to be touched and told how much u care always be honest with each other and communication is the key to any good relationship make sure u talk about what makes u happy and any problems or fears
We like to meet your friends whether they are male or female, althought we don't like to hear how great or sweet your other male friend is.

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How to propose a girl

Sometimes when you are friends with a girl and very open with her, proposing to her does not seem very difficult. Given the same situation, proposing may also bring fears to your mind because you may end up losing a friend too.

Sometimes the girl you want to propose isn’t your very close friend. She is almost an acquaintance. What do you do in that case? You fear rejection and at the same time you also fear a chance of making her your friend.

 

When you ask for online help in this case, the ideas of proposing a girl you get are often very costly, like theatre screen ad, banner printing, sky writing etc. Also some of the ideas need you to be very very friendly and almost in a relationship with the girl to propose her. Which girl would accept your idea of getting in the bath tub filled with roses before you? Or which girl would accept the idea of cuddling in a quilt at night with you without being in a relationship?

 

Some of the ideas though brilliant do not fit in our situation and budget. So here are the unique ways of proposing a girl that will suit your situation and budget too.

 

1. First of all your proposal should be a surprise to her for three reasons. Firstly, when you give her the hint that you are about to propose to her, she might plan ways of declining or postponing her answer. She will frame her answers to not make you feel bad and still say no. Secondly, telling her about your intentions would mean raising her expectations. She might start expecting a great way of proposing to her. And if you do not meet her expectations, she might not feel too good about the whole proposal. Thirdly, while proposing to her, you will most likely try to impress her which will be least expected by her. So she will be thrilled and filled with joy by the whole episode.

 

2. Describing how you feel in a letter or note is the best way of putting your feelings forward.  Accompanying this note and letter with flowers is like adding more to your feelings for her. Send these flowers with the note to her workplace or home (if she lives without parents or is alone at home). Make sure your delivery of flowers and notes does not embarrass her.

 

3. To add some spice to you love note, write it in some foreign language and ask her to decode it. Give her a time limit. She will slowly slowly decode the words and keep getting the meaning of some of the words and also your love. This is will make your love letter very exciting.

 

4. Take her to a beach, lake or sea shore at night. If the city you live in does not have any sea, lake or shore, you can plan any lounge that allows you to sit at pool side. Have a candle light  dinner there. Make sure the candles you use have good fragrance. Ask the hotel manager to arrange for them. Give him extra money for that. The soft lights of the candles and the aroma will add to the ambience and also fill you with more feelings for her. This would be the perfect ambience to propose her. Now when the waiter gets the bill post dinner, pass it on to her. She would be surprised to see that you are asking her to pay. But when she will look at the bill holder, there would be something else instead of the bill. It would be a love note from you to her. At the end of your love note would be another note that would say-

“Please do not hesitate in paying tips. If you like the proposal, you can give me a kiss else a smile would also do.” When you do this, look at her face and the smile she carries all day. But make sure you do all the arrangements and your settings with the staff of the lounge before you enter it.

 

5. One of the best ways of proposing a girl is to look into her eyes and with all your feelings for say that you love her and ask her if she is willing to spend the rest of her life with you. The guts you show would be highly appreciated by the girl. Choose a good destination or venue for doing such a brave act. Make sure the venue is not crowded and has soft lights and peace with some soft music in the background.

 

Whatever method you use to propose your girl, just make sure they do not embarrass her and do not create any trouble for her else she may start disliking you. Also all the ideas may not suit your situation, so it is better to mould them slightly. Remember not to pick up cheesy lines to propose to her and also do not ask her friend to convey your message to her. Be bold enough to speak to her about your feelings and she will love you for your boldness.

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How to Stop and Talk to a Girl on Street

Well women are surrounded by needy men who always want the approval of girls before they do anything. But women like men who are confident and who take some action.

If you want to talk to a girl walking on the street, you need to speak something that forces her to respond to you. If you are an average looking man and you try to act very smart, she will ignore you or simply laugh at you. But if you say something with confidence without bothering about your looks, she would definitely respond.
Understand this. Women are used to being approached by men who almost use the same pick up lines on every woman. So if you do the same, she would give you the same reaction she gives to everyone else, which is a big NO. So what do you need to do? You need to act differently.
Say "Hi" to her and she will most likely look at you and then ignore you. Now say, "Ma'am are you scared of good-looking guys? Don't worry! You will not fall for me!" The fact that you're an average-looking guy really makes something like this work.
Well most guys don't get this idea and they try hard to impress girls. But you have done it in just one go. You communicated to the pretty lady that you are not afraid of talking to good-looking girls and can make funny comments like that. This essentially also communicates that your sense of humour is good, which is a quality liked by most females.
Beautiful women come across guys who are boring and needy. These guys are not appealing to women because they look for approval each time they act. They would do everything that they think will please a woman. Sadly this leaves them with no identity and uniqueness. When someone shows his humour, strong personality and some strength, it really stands out.
So what should you do when you get to chat with a lady on the street? First of all do not act like a normal guy who would not leave her till she gets up and says she is getting late. Chat for a little while and then show that you need to make a move. When you leave her in between, you will do what most guys don't do and thus act differently. She will instantly feel attracted towards you. She will doubt her beauty which couldn't make you stay a little longer. But she doesn't know you are playing the trick.
When you are about to make a move, instantly ask her for her number and say you will call her next week to make some plan to meet. Without any second thoughts, she will give you her number. If you think she will not, just give her a paper and pen and ask her to write down her e-mail address. Women don't mind giving away their e-mail addresses because they know they can block the person anytime.
Now hide your happiness after getting her number or e-mail address and do not flood her inbox with mails and messages. Most men do not understand this technique and the moment they get the number of a girl, they flood her phone with messages and calls. If they have the e-mail id, they would try to chat with them. But such men are not liked by women.
If you make her wait for a few days, she would know you are genuine and would love to reply to your mail or message. Do not act needy and you will surely win.
Guys, it is actually possible to approach women, start conversations, and get phone numbers and emails within minutes. You can do it. You just need to act smart!

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Dating on Facebook - Five Tips for Men

Facebook has emerged as a very powerful tool that lets you connect with friends and unknown people too. These days men have taken to Facebook to find girls. All those who can’t find girls in real world, switch to Facebook as it is almost like a huge world where you can find plenty of girls to date.

However, it is not easy to make a girl talk to you on Facebook simply because your friend request can be declined and there is also an option to not let you contact the same girl again. Challenging, isn’t it?

So what can you do to date successfully on Facebook? Here are a few tips.

Do not go just by looks: It is true that looks matter but if you go for girls who look extra-ordinary beautiful, chances are that they will reject you. Start with average looking girls. You need to know the girl and her personality. Just looks are not everything in the dating world.

Also when you see the profile picture of the girl, you must be prepared to get something different from what appears on screen. This means that the profile picture can be fake or just one of the few good pictures she has and in reality she looks different. Do not make an image of her in your mind because that hurts later. Have the right motivation to move on which means that think about the good characteristics of the girl and nothing about how she looks, even if she is hot.

Avoid using cheap pick up lines and asking personal questions: Before you, many other guys must have tried to approach this girl. So she knows the tricks and tactics of men. To look different from the crowd, you must use some different strategy. Do not use the same cheap pick up lines used by men on almost all girls. Think creatively and come up with a unique mail or message that prompts her to know more about you.

Also when you get on talking terms with her, avoid asking personal questions and getting into details. Do not ask how many men she has dated or the exact address of her residence. Do not intimidate her by such questions. Have general talks through chat on Facebook. Ask about her day, or why did she post a particular status message.

Try to find out common interests: Some of her interests will be revealed by her profile and some you can ask her through chat. See what all you have in common. If both of you like playing badminton, you can invite her to join you for a match in the sports club. Similar interests also ensure good friendship because you can have lots of fun while doing same activities together.

Do not try to talk to multiple girls at the same time: It is good to try luck with different girls but it is wise to not try to contact too many girls at the same time. When you chat with a lot of girls, you tend to mix up their qualities and interests. This can cost you a great relationship. Also, Facebook shows your connection and mutual friends. So one girl in your list may also be friends with some other girl you are pursuing. Why take the risk? Enjoy dating one girl at a time.

Do not try to find meaning in everything she posts: Whether good or bad, positive or negative, do not over-analyze her status messages, her comments or anything she does on Facebook. Just remain neutral and do not think about them or relate them with yourself. It may weaken your confidence level and you may lose a girl too due to false suspicion.

Have a Purpose: What is your purpose of dating? If it is just to show off, then you are not on the right track. Always have a positive purpose for everything you do. Dating is fun if you take it in the right spirit. Dating gives you a chance to get introduced to someone new, learn something from her and also get exposed to so many things you didn’t know till you met her. Do not try to take advantage of anyone while dating. You may have fun but the other will suffer.

Facebook is an interesting platform for dating and even though there are limitations, there are people dating successfully on Facebook, some of them have even become couples.

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How to Meet Women Online

Well there are not one but many ways of meeting women online. Right from social networking sites to a number of dating sites, all are already serving this purpose. But after years of flirting and trying to seduce women online, are you still where you were when you started? If yes, then you probably are making the same mistake that most of the men make when trying to hook up with a girl online. 

Men must remember that women do not want to hear what they have been hearing all this while from all sorts of men. They do not want any random guy to send them messages saying how sexy they look. All this is cliché. She knows how she looks and she also knows that even if she looks average, men would say anything to seduce her. So better use something else to gain her attention. You probably must read her full profile to know the kind of girl she is and what kind of man she is looking for. Look for her interests in her profile and make a statement accordingly.

 

Men must categorize the websites according to the crowd they attract. Certain dating websites attract people looking for just friendship while some attract people looking for long term relationship. Social networking sites are mainly for connecting with people you know. So know your purpose and then select the dating website.

 

Your search should be based upon the kind of site you have registered with. If you intend to look for a girl on Facebook, then remember that the girl would most likely respond to someone who is a friend’s friend and not some random guy. This is because she is on this website for making friends and reconnecting with old ones and not exactly dating. Online dating websites usually give you the idea of the kind of people you will find on the site. Here the intention is clear whether you want to have a long term relationship or an open relationship or just casual sex. This makes it easier for you to approach any girl with the clear intention.

 

Show yourself in the right frame through your pictures. Your profile must show your happy pictures so that you look like a fun-loving person. This ensures that the girl will not consider you boring. Your picture must speak for you; it must tell others that you enjoy life.

 

Last but not the least, you need to compromise on who makes the first move. Do not wait for her to approach you. Instead, you need to make the first move and do so in a way that it leaves her curious for the next meet.

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