Dating on Facebook - Five Tips for Men

Facebook has emerged as a very powerful tool that lets you connect with friends and unknown people too. These days men have taken to Facebook to find girls. All those who can’t find girls in real world, switch to Facebook as it is almost like a huge world where you can find plenty of girls to date.

However, it is not easy to make a girl talk to you on Facebook simply because your friend request can be declined and there is also an option to not let you contact the same girl again. Challenging, isn’t it?

So what can you do to date successfully on Facebook? Here are a few tips.

Do not go just by looks: It is true that looks matter but if you go for girls who look extra-ordinary beautiful, chances are that they will reject you. Start with average looking girls. You need to know the girl and her personality. Just looks are not everything in the dating world.

Also when you see the profile picture of the girl, you must be prepared to get something different from what appears on screen. This means that the profile picture can be fake or just one of the few good pictures she has and in reality she looks different. Do not make an image of her in your mind because that hurts later. Have the right motivation to move on which means that think about the good characteristics of the girl and nothing about how she looks, even if she is hot.

Avoid using cheap pick up lines and asking personal questions: Before you, many other guys must have tried to approach this girl. So she knows the tricks and tactics of men. To look different from the crowd, you must use some different strategy. Do not use the same cheap pick up lines used by men on almost all girls. Think creatively and come up with a unique mail or message that prompts her to know more about you.

Also when you get on talking terms with her, avoid asking personal questions and getting into details. Do not ask how many men she has dated or the exact address of her residence. Do not intimidate her by such questions. Have general talks through chat on Facebook. Ask about her day, or why did she post a particular status message.

Try to find out common interests: Some of her interests will be revealed by her profile and some you can ask her through chat. See what all you have in common. If both of you like playing badminton, you can invite her to join you for a match in the sports club. Similar interests also ensure good friendship because you can have lots of fun while doing same activities together.

Do not try to talk to multiple girls at the same time: It is good to try luck with different girls but it is wise to not try to contact too many girls at the same time. When you chat with a lot of girls, you tend to mix up their qualities and interests. This can cost you a great relationship. Also, Facebook shows your connection and mutual friends. So one girl in your list may also be friends with some other girl you are pursuing. Why take the risk? Enjoy dating one girl at a time.

Do not try to find meaning in everything she posts: Whether good or bad, positive or negative, do not over-analyze her status messages, her comments or anything she does on Facebook. Just remain neutral and do not think about them or relate them with yourself. It may weaken your confidence level and you may lose a girl too due to false suspicion.

Have a Purpose: What is your purpose of dating? If it is just to show off, then you are not on the right track. Always have a positive purpose for everything you do. Dating is fun if you take it in the right spirit. Dating gives you a chance to get introduced to someone new, learn something from her and also get exposed to so many things you didn’t know till you met her. Do not try to take advantage of anyone while dating. You may have fun but the other will suffer.

Facebook is an interesting platform for dating and even though there are limitations, there are people dating successfully on Facebook, some of them have even become couples.

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