How to propose a girl

Sometimes when you are friends with a girl and very open with her, proposing to her does not seem very difficult. Given the same situation, proposing may also bring fears to your mind because you may end up losing a friend too.

Sometimes the girl you want to propose isn’t your very close friend. She is almost an acquaintance. What do you do in that case? You fear rejection and at the same time you also fear a chance of making her your friend.

 

When you ask for online help in this case, the ideas of proposing a girl you get are often very costly, like theatre screen ad, banner printing, sky writing etc. Also some of the ideas need you to be very very friendly and almost in a relationship with the girl to propose her. Which girl would accept your idea of getting in the bath tub filled with roses before you? Or which girl would accept the idea of cuddling in a quilt at night with you without being in a relationship?

 

Some of the ideas though brilliant do not fit in our situation and budget. So here are the unique ways of proposing a girl that will suit your situation and budget too.

 

1. First of all your proposal should be a surprise to her for three reasons. Firstly, when you give her the hint that you are about to propose to her, she might plan ways of declining or postponing her answer. She will frame her answers to not make you feel bad and still say no. Secondly, telling her about your intentions would mean raising her expectations. She might start expecting a great way of proposing to her. And if you do not meet her expectations, she might not feel too good about the whole proposal. Thirdly, while proposing to her, you will most likely try to impress her which will be least expected by her. So she will be thrilled and filled with joy by the whole episode.

 

2. Describing how you feel in a letter or note is the best way of putting your feelings forward.  Accompanying this note and letter with flowers is like adding more to your feelings for her. Send these flowers with the note to her workplace or home (if she lives without parents or is alone at home). Make sure your delivery of flowers and notes does not embarrass her.

 

3. To add some spice to you love note, write it in some foreign language and ask her to decode it. Give her a time limit. She will slowly slowly decode the words and keep getting the meaning of some of the words and also your love. This is will make your love letter very exciting.

 

4. Take her to a beach, lake or sea shore at night. If the city you live in does not have any sea, lake or shore, you can plan any lounge that allows you to sit at pool side. Have a candle light  dinner there. Make sure the candles you use have good fragrance. Ask the hotel manager to arrange for them. Give him extra money for that. The soft lights of the candles and the aroma will add to the ambience and also fill you with more feelings for her. This would be the perfect ambience to propose her. Now when the waiter gets the bill post dinner, pass it on to her. She would be surprised to see that you are asking her to pay. But when she will look at the bill holder, there would be something else instead of the bill. It would be a love note from you to her. At the end of your love note would be another note that would say-

“Please do not hesitate in paying tips. If you like the proposal, you can give me a kiss else a smile would also do.” When you do this, look at her face and the smile she carries all day. But make sure you do all the arrangements and your settings with the staff of the lounge before you enter it.

 

5. One of the best ways of proposing a girl is to look into her eyes and with all your feelings for say that you love her and ask her if she is willing to spend the rest of her life with you. The guts you show would be highly appreciated by the girl. Choose a good destination or venue for doing such a brave act. Make sure the venue is not crowded and has soft lights and peace with some soft music in the background.

 

Whatever method you use to propose your girl, just make sure they do not embarrass her and do not create any trouble for her else she may start disliking you. Also all the ideas may not suit your situation, so it is better to mould them slightly. Remember not to pick up cheesy lines to propose to her and also do not ask her friend to convey your message to her. Be bold enough to speak to her about your feelings and she will love you for your boldness.

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